Hardcore kindness semantics


The art of generalisation seems key, to me, although that’s probably more difficult to remember than “E-Prime” or “Maybe Logic” by mnemonics/memes. Learning to generalise without creating a basis for incipient harm/violence. (Or learning to artfully not generalise, although that sometimes doesn’t seem an option).

Alfred Korzybski’s “working devices” (indexes, dates and the etcetera), Robert Anton Wilson’s semantic ploys (eg “sombunall”), knowledge of informal logic (eg on uncritical inference*) all assist, and together they stand for me as major, important lessons and internalisations acquired from reading Robert Anton Wilson regularly since the 1980s. Still working on it, of course.

* Bob Wilson said he once owned an Uncritical Inference Test, and that he “used it in all my seminars”. (Source: Coincidance, ‘How To Read / How To Think’).

Mellowing out

Anyone who’s dabbled in writing with E-Prime and Maybe Logic will likely have witnessed a social “mellowing” effect. One’s claims and assertions appear less insistent and bossy. And you don’t have to be pedantic about it – “This is a fine cup of coffee” doesn’t have to come in a semantically correct form! You needn’t adopt a turgid or nerdy style.

One quickly gets a feel for the more ridiculous “is of identity” and “either/or” statements without even thinking about it. This becomes “second nature”, subtly altering your cast of mind – at which point you might exclaim: “Holy shit, those Whorf and Sapir dudes really had something!”.

Handling generalisation seems a bit more tricky to me. And the reason for this might partly explain why Korzybskian indexing/dating, RAW’s “sombunall”, etc, appear to get relatively less attention/use. (Another reason perhaps being style – see below). Basically, the ability to generalise (ie inductively infer) appears more hardwired, more fundamentally embodied as survival strategy, than the Aristotelian “software” tackled by those other, more memorable (meme-able) aspects of the Wilson/Korzybski semantic mellow-box.

This doesn’t stop us from seeing potentially harmful forms of group abstraction/generalisation, and recognising the importance RAW assigned to this awareness – and how it repeatedly appears as a topic or sub-topic throughout his writings.

Generalisation & “inductive logic”

The ability to generalise, in the guise of “inductive reasoning”, has increasingly become a leading candidate for what we “essentially mean” by human intelligence – with many neuroscientists, cognitive scientists and psychologists pointing to how induction underlies most of human cognition. Kathryn Schulz’s exceptional book, Being Wrong, scrutinises the dual aspect of inductive reasoning (aka generalisation) – on the one hand, “believing things based on paltry evidence is the engine that drives the entire miraculous machinery of human cognition”. On the other hand, it can – and routinely does – lead to catastrophic failure, in spheres such as politics, religion/morality and social conflict (areas where RAW and Korzybski sought to mitigate these failures).

If you’re interested in this aspect of generalisation/abstraction, and how our evaluation of “evidence” seems central to it, I’d highly recommend checking out the chapter on evidence (chapter 6) in Schulz’s book. I previously wrote at more length about this (with plentiful excerpts from Kathryn’s book) here.

“Do you really hate the Romans?”

Some of the worst cases, for me, of the unfortunate habit of over-generalising on abstract groups (eg “The Media”, “The Establishment”, “The Elite”… or insert your favourite scapegoat group: “shitlibs”, “woketards”, “Tory scum”, etc) ironically came from people whose political views I otherwise agreed with on many issues. Cue the classic Monty Python scene, which illustrates what I’m thinking of here better than any number of long-winded blog posts.

S.I. Hayakawa’s book, Language in Thought and Action, puts this problem in interesting perspective when talking of Korzybski-style indexing. Take a common blame group, “the liberal media”, consisting of “liberal journalists” – a large collection of human beings that we classify as both “liberal” and “journalist”. As Hayakawa puts it, “The terms of the classification tell us what the individuals in that class have in common”. He adds that with the practice of indexing, “the index numbers remind us of the characteristics left out“.

Indexing: LIBERAL JOURNALIST1 LIBERAL JOURNALIST2 LIBERAL JOURNALIST3

What’s left of a given person – aside from the pigeonholes of profession and political viewpoint? Quite a lot – a lot of characteristics that distinguish one individual from another in this group (and any group). But what about “structural constraints” “in” or “of” a group such as “the media” (à la Chomskyan “institutional analysis”) – doesn’t that mitigate this individualism and make our generalised “corporate media” claims more valid? For sure, although I think the “structural” metaphor gets overused in this context, as if we’re talking about the characteristics of steel beams and concrete foundations.

(In previous professional lives I’ve taken the roles of both graduate architect and business I.T. systems analyst working for blue chip companies. In the former I dealt with building structure; in the latter I specialised in methodologies for mapping corporate “data structure” and “data flow” in institutional systems. Much later I wrote a book on media framing, which talks about linguistic structures, deep structures of cognition, narrative structure, inferential structures, mutually inhibiting brain structures, etc. So who am I to talk about overuse of this metaphor, I guess!).

Masakatsu Sashie

A physical media HQ (building) and its management structure, etc, may appear the same now as twenty years ago, but its “product” MEDIA2023 doesn’t equal its “product” MEDIA2003 (to vastly understate and leave unspoken whole universes of technological and social change affecting “THE MEDIA” and the countless thousands of individuals working “in” or “for” it). Worth noting for those commentators who claim that “They” (“the liberal media”) “are the same now over Ukraine as they were with the Iraq War”. Or that “THEY” (or “WE”) demonised Saddam Hussein in the same way that “THEY” (or “WE”) demonise Elon Musk now, using the same “playbook”. (That last example comes from Joe Rogan’s interview with Matt Taibbi).

We can put a mental question mark on generalisers such as “they” or “we”. Or even add written question marks. RAW wrote about this practice (in an essay contained in Undoing Yourself Too). He cites Joffrey Stewart writing phrases such as the following, with the offending generalisers wrapped by question marks – eg “?we?”:

Bob added that “Joffrey Stewart’s question marks certainly led me to revise my own software, and I cannot listen to TV these days without mentally inserting similar interrogations in many widely used expressions.”

Recent examples I noted where this might apply:
“THEY hate Russia [because it’s a Christian country]” – Tucker Carlson
“[Musk’s] taken 90% of controls off and THEY’RE crapping bricks” – Alex Jones

Baseline kindness

When abstracting on social/political groups, generalising on “identity”/”blame”, etc, RAW’s blend of approaches – including what General Semantics calls extensional devices – together with healthy doses of joyful-ironic widescreen humour, etc, tends to yield a baseline kindness of expression – but without excluding criticism or condemnation of perceived harms, etc.

You don’t have to talk forever like a Hallmark greetings card or a cliché generator to practice Wilson-style kindness semantics. Exactly the opposite. Why not go all “forensic” when the situation demands? Notice the overlap with scientific operationalism in Bob’s accounts of these semantic ploys.

Non-trivial semantic no-harm – relatively unvaunted and invisible, even unintended, but with “global” kindness effects. Imagine publicly communicating without getting paid to pander to your audience’s subtle or unsubtle resentments of some generalised class of people, some fuzzily defined “They”. Almost unthinkable! (At least in the increasingly dominant, politically influential, and soon to be further AI-boosted, media forms).

Matters of style, etc

Wendell Johnson’s book, People in Quandaries, a popularisation of General Semantics, gives the following example of the use of two extensional devices, indexes and dates:

For practical/aesthetic reasons (among others), these indexing and dating methods don’t appear to have caught on. At least not in the explicit form of subscript and superscript (which doesn’t look typographically great here – should be smaller, to distinguish from surrounding text. Maybe it’s browser dependent).

Bob Wilson occasionally used these devices (subscript indexes) explicitly in his writings, but more often he accomplished the same effect “implicitly”, as part of his semantic style – with the (sometimes) stated aim of making us more aware of the abstracting process.

A few examples. The first uses explicit subscript indexes; the second doesn’t:

Reified by social (media) repetition, blame-group abstractions often seem like addictive substances, overloading one’s circuits with crusading zeal, while clogging cognition and clouding mirror neurons. No wonder RAW occasionally labelled his various language recommendations “semantic hygiene”. Unlike most of Bob’s phrases, “semantic hygiene” never resonated with me – the cleanliness metaphor having unfortunate associations (eg moral “cleanliness” metaphors of puritans, eugenic “genetic hygiene”, “ethnic cleansing”, etc). But he didn’t use that phrase often, as far as I know.

Kindness, for me, seems a better label (than “hygiene”) for conceptually embracing these semantic props. The conventional and cliché-laden framing of “acts of kindness” might then grow to include the conscious, non-conventional adoption of kindness semantics. Even if it’s as “minor” as regularly adding an extensional element (eg a qualifier or quantifier) into your ranty thoughts about your go-to mental scapegoat group.

Semantic aids as “censorship”(?)

Tenmyouya Hisashi

Would it seem too much of a stretch to argue that what we call “political correctness” arose originally from kindness? Certainly one can argue (and the Encyclopædia Britannica does argue) that the broad premise of PC reflects the Whorfian (also Korzybskian) hypothesis that language structure affects our perceptions in non-trivial ways, together with a “desire to eliminate exclusion of various identity groups based on language usage”. The kindness of inclusion.

Leaving aside the agents provocateurs (who seem legion) and political weaponisation of the whole topic, and allowing for genuine instances of transitions from kind expressive forms to more oppressive, censorious ones, what marked or signaled those transitions, specifically? Ironically: language structure, generalisation (plus a few other things). Even more reason, then, for more awareness of the abstracting process, and for more knowledge of the ways inductive reasoning fails us.


Final word from Buddhist Hallmark greetings card:

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  1. Seriously good post, against the grain of the commentariat gossip and blame show. I’m not hopeful that today’s internet community will apply these lessons from RAW and Korzybski. But we can only try, while the world burns. And hope for better days.

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  2. Wheeling out the big guns, this is good to see. A few of my web accounts still use a nice pic of Korzybski as a profile image. I’m more optimistic than Steve Lyles. If we can get past the next few years and not elect Trump, things will start to improve. Either way, kindness has to be the most important message.

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  3. Thanks, Steve & Andre. Just noticed WordPress has changed the comment entry area so that it starts blank, and only displays details (or request for details) once the commenters starts typing. As usual, only an email address & name is needed (any email & name) to post.

    Or that’s how it looks in my browser, anyway (regardless of whether I’m signed in to my WordPress account).

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  4. Bobby Campbell observed in a podcast interview that if you use Eprime during an argument, the argument seldom escalates. That seems like one way to apply kindness semantics.

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    1. Indeed. I’ve noticed the effect in written online back-and-forth discussions. I’ve no doubt the same applies in verbal arguments too.

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  5. You might not like generalizations, but a lot of liberal journalists have supported the US-armed proxy war in Ukraine. And a lot of libs have made Musk out to be Hitler. Why deny it. I get why you leftie/lib RAW fans use these examples, but it only shows your bias.

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    1. I’d rather express my “bias” than hide it!
      In this case it consists of the following perceptions:

      I see many journalists (some of them “liberal”) opposed to Russia’s invasion and supportive of Ukraine’s attempts to repel it. I wouldn’t conflate aggressive invasion with repelling it, therefore I don’t accept your phrase, “proxy war”.

      Also: I see many journalists (some of them “liberal”) criticising Elon Musk for various reasons, and some of that criticism I find valid.

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  6. Another excellent post. I know RAW said something about kindness being the most wonderful thing in the universe (I forget the exact quote), and others have mentioned that, yet I’m surprised nobody has commented before on the aspects you mention (besides e-prime’s effects.) very worthy of highlighting and you have done a great job explaining it.

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